Teens. Toddlers. Moms.
No matter the age. We all struggle to remember (or know) the truth about who God says we are. And our position in Christ.
When we forget, we let friends, circumstances, or lies feed our souls with identity. And that takes us down the path of uncertainty, harmful activities and a broken path.
Thankfully, today’s guest, Kristen Hatton, helps “Get Your Story Straight”.
When her daughter was in 6th grade, Kristen started teaching her and a group of friends truth from the Bible. Unfortunately, there weren’t a lot of great resources available for preteens/teens. So she used notes from her husband’s sermons and wrote her own Bible study. (click here to check it out)**
In this episode, Kristen and I talk about the struggle for our kids to know how “justification” applies to daily life. (And define what ‘justification’ means).
We also chat about how to help teens navigate the challenges of social media. And Kristen vulnerably shares her daughter’s battle with an eating disorder (which began with internalizing social media posts).
Lastly, Kristen helps us start to keep communication open with our kids. So when they are teens they will keep talking. I’m in the stage with lots of little people all trying to be with me and talk to me (at the same time). But after three blinks I’ll have a home full of teen boys. The time I spend listening now will impact how much they talk to me in the future.
Very thankful for the help, perspective and wisdom from Kristen. Now I can see the teenage years as an age of opportunity not a season to be feared.
Connect with Kristen:
What we chat about:
- How quickly our kiddos grow into teenagers.
- How Kristen saw a need for good bible study materials for teens.
- Helping our kids be anchored in who God says we are (not who their friends on social media says they are).
- Importance of teaching our kids the concept of justification.
- When the world is measuring perfection and performance but we know we are only perfect in Christ.
- How to communicate worth and identity to our kids.
- Why teens stop talking to their parents.
- Listening and asking probing questions.
- Responding with grace instead of condemnation.
- How internalizing social media posts led to her daughter’s eating disorder.
- How boys struggle with social media.
- How Kristen talks to her kids about the impact of social media.
- Talking to your sons & daughters about pornography. Keeping an open conversation.
- Reorienting your kids to the message of the gospel, moment-to-moment
**Amazon affiliate link (if reading via email, click to GCM site to get links).
Two New Books by Kristen:
Face Time: Your Identity in a Selfie World** (for teen girls and deals with identity, worth, social media and other teen issues discussed in podcast)
The Gospel-Centered Life in Exodus for Students** (comes out July 23rd! 12-week study, great for small groups, family devo or personal QT)
How to listen to the podcast:
1.Listen on the blog. Click through to GodCenteredMom.com and click the play button at the beginning of this post.
2. Listen on your smartphone, iPad or iPod Touch – There are a lot of great podcasting apps. Apple has a free one (that I mentioned) in the app store, there is also one called Downcast. It allows you to search for shows, subscribe to them and even speed up the audio. If you don’t have an iDevice, you can listen via Stitcher.
3. Subscribe to the Podcast – access the podcast in iTunes (Click here to access via iTunes). You can also search for it on your smartphone app (like the ones listed above) and subscribe.