I tried and tried to come up with a great summarizing title for this episode. But the truth is it holds such a variety of goodness, one title wouldn't suffice.
Since you've already heard Kirk Martin (from CelebrateCalm) help us stop yelling, lecturing and power struggles. And specifically address strong-willed children, sibling rivalry and back-to-school stress . I figured you trusted his advice and we could do a bit of jumping around.
Personally, this week Kirk helped me address the challenge of parenting solo, when my husband travels. If you have a husband who works a lot or leaves for long trips I hope you gain new ideas for getting your kids to help carry the heavier household burden.
If you've been listening to my episodes with Kirk, hopefully you've seen a change in your anger level. If so, you may need help repairing damage caused from years of yelling. In this episode, he shares ways to rebuild trust. . .starting with yourself.
Then a conversation on being a "lawn mower parent" (which I'd never heard of before) led us to focus on some practical tips for managing strong-willed kiddos.
Lastly, we learn how to help our first born, perfectionist children. The ones who don't take risks because they fear failure. And the question we should be asking at the dinner table. And what we shouldn't be saying as a form of encouragement.
As always, Kirk helps me understand a little bit more how my tone matters. One of these days it's gonna click. . . ;)
What we chat about:
- The stress of solo parenting.
- Developing family traditions when dad travels.
- The importance of self care.
- How to repair a relationship after a pattern of harsh parenting.
- Ways we can be a "lawn mower parent".
- What a strong-willed child needs.
- How to help the perfectionist child.
- What to ask at family dinners and what not to say.
- How to change your tone to be engaged but not owning
Connect with Kirk:
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